Selecting an urn for your loved one's remains can be an emotional undertaking that requires thought and care, yet the task doesn't stop there: next comes transferring their ashes to it if necessary. Here is a helpful guide that can assist with placing them into an urn.
Prior to beginning the transfer of ashes, you will require several key items: cremation urn, plastic bag (if the ashes haven't already been stored inside of one), funnel (optional but can make this step simpler), and clean cloth for wiping off any loose fragments of remains.
Step-By-Step Guide Choose an Appropriate Place:
When transporting an urn indoors, find a quiet and windless location where no interruptions will be caused by wind. Placing a tablecloth or tray beneath it may also help catch any loose ashes that may fall during transportation.
Unlock Your Urn:
Different urns have different opening methods; some open from the top while others from below or even feature a secure panel on their backsides. If unsure, refer to the documentation of your chosen urn or contact its supplier if unsure.
Prep the Ashes:
Cremation ashes should come back in sealed plastic bags, however if that isn't the case it is important to protect them and make their transport more seamless by placing them into an additional plastic bag before adding them into an urn. This helps protect them and makes the transfer process smoother.
Transfer the Ashes:
To transfer ashes using a funnel, place it at the opening of your urn and slowly pour the bag of ashes from it into it. Alternatively, place the bag directly in your urn with its contents evenly dispersed within.
Resealing an Urn:
Once all the ashes have been transferred, seal the urn again. Urns can use various methods for sealing--some have screw-top lids while others use panels which secure with screws; other require sealants as an added measure of security.
Need Assistance From a Funeral Director
While you can certainly transfer ashes yourself, don't hesitate to seek assistance if the process makes you uncomfortable. Funeral directors have experience handling ashes and can perform the transfer on your behalf as well as provide advice or offer comfort if there are any concerns or questions that arise during this process.
Before transferring the ashes, take time to consider how the urn seals. If it seals permanently, ensure any portions you want kept separate are taken before the final seal takes place. Keepsake urns or keepsake jewellery can help hold onto these smaller portions for future memorialisation by different family members.
Conclusion
Although moving ashes to an urn may be an emotionally taxing task, doing it yourself or with help from a funeral director is an invaluable opportunity to honour and remember loved ones in a tangible way. Doing it yourself provides closure, peace and closure.
