Introduction
Grieving for a loved one can be an emotional rollercoaster; one decision to consider during this difficult period is selecting an urn for your loved ones ashes - something which might seem daunting but is an integral part of mourning and healing processes. This article will guide you through key factors when selecting an urn, including location, future of ashes storage needs, cost considerations and more.
Placement of an Urn
A key consideration when purchasing an urn is where it will be kept; its placement can have an effect on its type, size, material composition and design features.
Scattering of Ashes:
If you wish to scatter your loved one's ashes, select either a scattering tube or biodegradable urn specifically designed for this task. These options tend to be lightweight, easily opened and environmentally-friendly allowing their remains to slowly dissolve into nature over time.
Burial of Ashes:
For burial purposes, biodegradable urns are an appropriate choice. If the burial takes place within a columbarium niche however, more durable options such as marble, metal or ceramic may be preferable when selecting an urn for this purpose - keeping size restrictions in mind is also important when making this selection.
Displaying an Urn at Home:
Keeping an Urn close can provide an added sense of closeness and remembrance. For home display, consider selecting an attractive urn that complements your decor; popular options are wood, glass, ceramic or metal options.
Where Will the Urn be Stored?
By location, I mean where in your home or elsewhere the urn will be kept.
Choose an urn that complements the aesthetic of your room to remember a loved one who has passed. A fireplace mantle urn can become the focal point of the room and remind all who enter about your loved one's memory.
Bookshelf or Display Cabinet: For an understated presentation, bookshelves or cabinets may be the perfect option. Consider including an urn that blends in well with your books and decorations on display.
Garden or Outdoor Space: By placing an urn in a garden or outdoor space, an elegant memorial site can be created. A weatherproof material such as stone or metal would work best.
Preparing to Hand Over Ashes
Making arrangements for the future of the ashes of someone you have loved is essential, and should include factors like:
Garden Placement: Memorial gardens provide an intimate place of mourning and reflection. When moving homes, however, you will need to decide if it makes sense to leave or take with the urn behind. Biodegradable or tree urns which dissolve over time or allow roots from an urn's contents grow from its contents are popular choices if you intend on staying put long term.
Relocating: Assuming you may move at some point, select an urn with easy transportability in mind.
Cost
Urn costs vary considerably, depending on factors like material, size, design and craftsmanship. Basic models start around PS50 while more extravagant or custom pieces may cost several hundred pounds or more - remember, however, that its value doesn't lie solely with price - its true worth lies with you and how well it represents memories of loved ones who have passed.
Conclusion
Selecting an urn for your loved one's remains is an emotional decision, so take time to research all available options, taking into account where and when the urn will be displayed as well as budget and future planning considerations. That way, you can ensure an urn that serves as a fitting memorial tribute.
